What People Think Success Is & What it Is

Saw this drawing on http://madelinelevine.com/nuff-said/ and liked it

Saw this drawing concerning success and I liked it.

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7 Words

Since it is Good Friday I have been thinking about the 7 last words/sayings of Jesus. I’ve been focusing on one word from each saying. Here are the words that have stood out to me.

  • Forgive
  • With
  • Behold
  • Forsaken
  • Thirst
  • Hands
  • Finished

It is amazing how much one word can say. At least they are speaking to me. I hope that you have an amazing Resurrection Sunday from the God Who loves to forgive you and me, wants to be with us and us to be with Him, hopes that we behold His truth, was forsaken to find us who felt forsaken, thirsts for us to thirst for Him, has strong hands for us to commit ourselves to, and has finished what no one else could finish.

Long Day

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Montana’s current position pretty well expresses how I feel right now.

Did the chaplain thing at St. Mike’s hospital, fed 70ish people jambalaya at the Place of Peace meal tonight at the First Baptist Church of Stevens Point, and setup led Tapestry’s 2013 Tenebrae. Long day. Missed a lot of friends who would normally be there if it hadn’t of been Spring Break this week – I hope you guys and ladies know that you are missed. Jambalaya pot is now cleaned but the church sound equipment will end up staying in the minivan for at least another day. Tired and ready for bed. I am very thankful for the threads that make this stuff happen. Looking forward to celebrating Resurrection Sunday with Tapestry mainly because I really enjoyed celebrating it with them today by serving others and reading the 14th and 15th chapters of the Gospel According to Mark (which is pretty much all our Tenebrae gathering is – reading the 14th & 15ht chapters with 7 candles and 7 songs).

The Self Love of the Church

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I read this from H. Richard Niebuhr and i agreed with it so much I thought I would share it.

This is true also of the Church; it loses its character as Church when it concentrates on itself, worships itself and seeks to make love of Church the first commandment.
The Purpose of the Church and its Ministry

Can Versus Will

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I loved studying statistics during my undergraduate degree. Actually to be truthful I hated statistics after the first test of my second semester of statistics but that changed back to love again after I figured out what I wasn’t understanding. I learned a great deal from the general and business statistic classes that I took as a student at the University of South Alabama (yeah the initials of the school I attended are U.S.A.) that I still use today. Even as a pastor there is a great deal that I learn in those classes that I regularly use. One such lesson was the difference between possibility/chance and probability. Let me talk about example right now.

Every now and then I hear the following statement …

You can be a Christian without regularly being a part of a church.

You can add other statements such as “You can be a Christian without caring for the weak,” “reading your bible,”  “praying, ” “forgiving those who hurt you,” etc., etc. The problem I have with the above statements is that they mistake “can” (possibility) with “will” (probability). Such statements use a theoretical possibility to dismiss the personal probability and  faith always has a  personal element to it. Can you be a Christian, someone who professes Jesus as their Lord and is trying to follow Him as their Lord (Romans 10:9),  without regularly being a part of a church? Sure, though I think you would have a hard time figuring out how to live out the instruction in Hebrews to not giving up gathering together. The question shouldn’t be “can” you be a Christian without regularly being a part of a church but “will” you? Again my definition of being a Christian isn’t someone who just thinks Jesus existed and the bible is a good (but often unread) book. Nope my understanding of being a Christian comes from Jesus calling His disciples to come follow Him. So the question shouldn’t be “can you,” a theoretical discussion that doesn’t affect your live, but “will you,” a practical discussion of what is most likely based on your actions.

Since I believe faith experiences shouldn’t be separated from what we understand from our normal life experiences I will give you two life examples of the can versus will fallacy. I take great pride in my marriage and family. I work hard at being a loving husband and a good dad. Can I be a good husband/dad with out intentionally working on being one? Yep sure can. I theoretically could have a great relationship with Pam and the boys without ever spending much time with them. Yet the practical truth is that while I can have successful family relationships without effort the probability of it happening that way isn’t very great. If I don’t spend regular large amounts of time with Pam and the boys I probably won’t have good relationships with them. It doesn’t matter that it can happen. What matters is will it happen.

Another example comes from running. Can I run and finish a marathon without training for it? Again, yep sure can. The reality, however, is that without large amounts of time training for a marathon I probably won’t ever start to run one let alone finish it.

As I have been saying, possibility and probability are two different things. This is true is so much of life and faith. Can you do something or not do something and effectively follow Christ? The answer is usually yes that is a possibility. That doesn’t mean it is probable though. I am much more concerned with probability than I am possibility. I want to do the things that most help to follow Christ. I hope you do too.

Not to Snatch People Away

“Jesus’s resurrection is the beginning of God’s new project not to snatch people away from earth to heaven but to colonize earth with the life of heaven. That, after all, is what the Lord’s Prayer is about.”
― N.T. Wright, Surprised by Hope: Rethinking Heaven, the Resurrection, and the Mission of the Church

It is Holy Week. For many of us that means more religious services than normal. I like religious gatherings and that is a good thing. It would suck for Tapestry to have a pastor that never wanted to be at any of the organized religious activities that we did. That would make for fun conversations with guests.

    “So where is your pastor?”
    “Well, he doesn’t really like organized religious gatherings…”
    “So you’re saying your pastor doesn’t come to your church gatherings?”
    “Yep, that’s it exactly.”

I could be wrong but I just don’t think that would fly very well.

With all the religious activity it can become easy to think that these gatherings are what faith is all about. They aren’t. They are just supposed to help us live out our faith. They are reminders and energizers but they aren’t the real deal. The real is living your faith out every where else.

So since it is Holy Week why not do something Christ like and infuse life back into something or someone who is experiencing the pain that comes from death. Find a hurting person and be a part of God bringing healing, faith, hope and love to their lives. After all, the kingdom of God isn’t about Christians escaping the earth. Instead it is about God invading and reclaiming His creation, bringing heaven to earth. Those of us who are followers of Christ are the people who wants to do this through. We work with Christ to see heavenly things happen. So go be heavenly.

Lenten Project & Free

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If you haven’t checked out Tapestry’s Lenten Project yet then please let me recommend that you do so. Various threads have used their talents to help Tapestry prepare for Easter.  I am really enjoying each week’s art and song. Good news is that you can download the individual songs now and the better news is that Joel is going to work on all the songs again before we release all the songs together so they will be normalized to each other (thus having an equal volume). It is amazing to me what these ladies and gents are able to do.

Part of what I love the most about what the threads consistently do is that they do it for free. They offer their talents freely and that is just plain cool. By the end of this project Tapestry will have developed a 7 song EP that is being given away for free. The threads don’t hesitate a second in just giving their talents away. I think that is a different type of mindset and I am honored to be a part of such a group.

Here are the songs thus far (one more song comes out on Easter):

Polar Bears

I just found out from Pam, who learn this from Noah, that the city of Churchill, Manitoba, Canada has so many polar bears walking through it that it is local custom to leave your house and car doors unlocked so that whenever necessary you can dive into safety. You can read about this for yourself at this neatorama link. Just made me laugh.

Where Am I?

I know recently I haven’t been posting much on the blog and this makes me sad. Not so much because I believe many people other than my mom and dad read this thing (Hi Mom! Hi Dad) but more so because I think through things better when I am writing about them. Unfortunately the vast majority of the interesting experiences that I am going through right now are happening in St. Michael’s hospital or in my Clinical Pastoral Education peer meeting and both of these are covered by various layers of confidentiality so I can’t type about them. This is pretty frustrating because I have had some pretty cool and funny things happen to and around me. I am going to force myself to start writing a few times each week because I miss it.

So here are some random thoughts:

  • I wish there was a really good chili dog place in Point. I don’t know of one right now but I have been told that Square Scoops has a decent hotdog. I’ll find out in the next week or two. Every now and then I get the urge to start my own chili dog push cart. It would be cool during the Summer but I have no idea what I would do with it during the Winter.
  • Reading a merely mediocre book after reading a string of really good books is a taxing experience. I am presently reading An Introduction to Pastoral Care by Charles Gerkin for CPE right now and it is ok. I just find it hard to get into Gerkin’s writing style. This is driving me nuts because I just finishing reading The American Spiritual Cultural by William Dean and World War Z: An Oral History of the Zombie War by Max Brooks, both of which really drew me in. Unfortunately I have to finish Gerkin’s book for CPE and thus I will push through it. I’m not sure what I am going to start on after I finish Gerkin. Thinking about reading some Kathryn Tanner (Christ the Key) or reading some Kurt Vonnegut.
  • No work has been done on Fred the Sentra for the past few months because snow is on the ground and therefore the garage is pretty much always wet or icy. Not a fun environment for being under a car. I’ve been researching a few things on how to fix the rust spots. I think I will be teaching myself to weld this Summer.
  • Just in case you don’t know this – I have a really cool family. Pam and the boys are just awesome and interesting people. I really enjoy talking with my wife and kid ands and hearing their thoughts on the world. If you haven’t recently hung out with Pam, Adam, or Noah you really should.
  • Since I am bragging on family I also want to make sure you guys know how awesome the church I get to be a part of is. Tapestry is awesome. I am honored to be a part of it. If you haven’t looked at the Lenten Project that we are doing you really should.
  • I’m doing a poll on Tapestry’s facebook page right now concerning what the church’s next message series should be. Right now “Anything as long as it is short” seems to be the consensus winner. I guess 88 weeks on the Gospel according to Mark might have been a little long. 🙂

I guess that is it for now. Hopefully this will get the blogging stone rolling again.

Pointing versus Creating

I just heard a statement on a podcast I was listening to concerning pointing becoming more valuable than creating in Western culture. What does this mean. Well what was referenced is that we have begun to value the acting of pointing out something that is interesting or cool more than we do the actual creating of the item. Think of how many things you have “shared” via facebook, twitter, instagram, good read, reddit, boing boing, or some other social network versus how much you have actually created for someone else to point to. Reddit and boing boing really just exist to point out interesting thing. Or consider Pinterest. These are entire social media networks established just to point out interesting things. I don’ t think this is an age thing either. My parents point to/share just as many videos, photos, graphics as my kids do. Pam and I do the same thing (though Pam creates I fair amount too).

Right now, I’m not sure what this means or even how to speculate about what it might reference concerning modern culture. I do however find it interesting and therefore thought I would point it out. 😉